When you have an aging loved one that requires care, it can be a rewarding experience finding them the right care and helping them along in their journey. It can also have several moments of difficulty for varying reasons which is why it is important to keep tabs on your own physical and mental health during this journey.
As the roles in each of your lives begin to switch from your parent now needing you as their caregiver, it can become easy to be enveloped in the process of caring for them. They did so much for you throughout your life that many feel they owe it to their aging loved one to focus only on their health. However, you will need to keep a balance or your effectiveness as a caregiver can quickly become compromised. Here are seven signs it is time you need to take a break from the caregiver role:
- Physically Exhausted: If you find yourself in a constant state of fatigue and struggling to get a sound sleep, you are likely experiencing this from the demands of caregiving. Try to note how often you are struggling with fatigue or experiencing muscle cramps and other ailments.
- Emotional Rollercoaster: Feeling overwhelmed, irritable, or easily frustrated, and experiencing mood swings or frequent crying spells can be signs of emotional exhaustion.
- Neglecting Your Own Personal Care: If you find yourself struggling to remember the last time you took a shower or had a complete meal, it can often be a sign that you need a break from the caregiver role.
- Losing Friends: Friendships in life will operate in a social support role for you as caregiver hardships are experienced. If you find yourself becoming disconnected from those friendships, you need to take a moment and prioritize those relationships before they are lost.
- Increased Irritability: This can be a tougher sign to monitor yourself but if you begin noticing you have increased amounts of crying sessions or extreme anger, you may need a break.
- Forgetting Your Own Hobbies: If you no longer find pleasure in previously enjoyed hobbies/activities, it can be a strong indicator as a caregiver that you are neglecting your own needs.
- Resentment Feelings: Feeling resentment towards the caregiving role, experiencing guilt over wanting time for oneself, or feeling a loss of personal identity are signs that a break is necessary to restore emotional well-being.
Recognizing these signs and understanding the importance of self-care is essential for caregivers. Taking time to rest, recharge, and focus on personal well-being is not selfish but rather a vital component of being an effective and compassionate caregiver.
Senior Living Specialists has helped facilitate conversations between family members to lessen the stress loads certain caregivers might be experiencing. We can also work with you to identify if your aging loved one has reached a point of needing a greater level of care to better serve their needs and your own.
